Restorative Divorce

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Erin Birt, J.D., CADC

26 May 2026

11m 45s

What Is The Kitchen Table Divorce®?

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What Is The Kitchen Table Divorce®?

For generations, families gathered around kitchen tables to discuss important decisions, solve problems, and plan for the future.

So why has divorce become something that immediately leaves the kitchen table and enters an adversarial system?

In Episode 2 of Season 4 of The Restorative Divorce Podcast, Erin Birt discusses the philosophy behind The Kitchen Table Divorce® and why many families may benefit from it before conflict escalates unnecessarily.

This episode explores:

• Why many divorces become reactive so quickly

• What The Kitchen Table Divorce® actually means

• The difference between litigation, mediation, and guided negotiation

• Why reducing unnecessary conflict matters for both parents and children

• How thoughtful planning may create healthier long-term outcomes

Drawing from more than 20 years of experience in family law, mediation, conflict resolution, and restorative divorce approaches, Erin shares insight into why many families need a roadmap before they need a courtroom.

If you are navigating divorce, co-parenting concerns, mediation, or uncertainty about your next step, this episode offers a calmer and more thoughtful perspective on how families may move forward with less unnecessary damage.

Listen now to Season 4 Episode 2 of The Restorative Divorce Podcast.

Learn more about The Kitchen Table Divorce®, mediation services, and planning sessions at BirtLaw.com.