Restorative Divorce

Podcast by Erin Birt, J.D., CADC

Restorative Divorce

Restorative Divorce is an informative podcast for anyone considering divorce or coparenting without costly and destricutive litigation. We focus on the emotional, financial, and legal aspects of divorce and coparenting so you can be best prepared for the future. This podcast will guide you to find places of peace and resolution before, during, and after your divorce or separation. Videos and transcripts of our podcast can also be found at www.birtlaw.com.

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Latest episodes

08 June 2026

The Myth of DIY Divorce

DIY divorce can save money and reduce conflict, but understanding when to seek guidance may be the difference between a smooth resolution and a costly mistake.

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26 May 2026

What Is The Kitchen Table Divorce®?

For generations, families gathered around kitchen tables to discuss important decisions, solve problems, and plan for the future.

So why has divorce become something that immediately leaves the kitchen table and enters an adversarial system?

In Episode 2 of Season 4 of The Restorative Divorce Podcast, Erin Birt discusses the philosophy behind The Kitchen Table Divorce® and why many families may benefit from it before conflict escalates unnecessarily.

This episode explores:

• Why many divorces become reactive so quickly

• What The Kitchen Table Divorce® actually means

• The difference between litigation, mediation, and guided negotiation

• Why reducing unnecessary conflict matters for both parents and children

• How thoughtful planning may create healthier long-term outcomes

Drawing from more than 20 years of experience in family law, mediation, conflict resolution, and restorative divorce approaches, Erin shares insight into why many families need a roadmap before they need a courtroom.

If you are navigating divorce, co-parenting concerns, mediation, or uncertainty about your next step, this episode offers a calmer and more thoughtful perspective on how families may move forward with less unnecessary damage.

Listen now to Season 4 Episode 2 of The Restorative Divorce Podcast.

Learn more about The Kitchen Table Divorce®, mediation services, and planning sessions at BirtLaw.com.

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14 May 2026

Why Divorce Escalates So Quickly

Season 4, Episode 1: Why Divorce Escalates So Quickly

Most families do not begin divorce wanting conflict, but many quickly find themselves overwhelmed by fear, stress, and reactive decisions. In this opening episode of Season 4, Erin Birt discusses why divorce often escalates faster than families intended and how structure, education, and thoughtful planning can help parents move through divorce with less unnecessary conflict.

Drawing from more than 20 years of family law and mediation experience, Erin explores the emotional and systemic factors that drive escalation and introduces the philosophy behind The Kitchen Table Divorce®.

Learn more at BirtLaw.com.

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09 September 2024

Parental Alcoholism and Its Effect on Custody and Visitation: Legal Insights and Solutions

In this episode, we dive into how parental alcoholism (or substance misuse) can impact child custody and visitation arrangements. We’ll explore how courts evaluate the role of substance abuse in parenting decisions and the potential consequences for parents struggling with alcoholism or alcohol misuse. You'll also hear about legal strategies to protect children’s well-being and how alternative dispute resolution methods, like Restorative Divorce and mediation, can offer more cooperative solutions for families dealing with these challenges. Tune in for expert advice on safeguarding your family’s future in the face of addiction.

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07 August 2024

Transforming Divorce: An Empowering Journey with Brenda Bridges

In this episode of the Restorative Divorce Podcast, we sit down with Brenda Bridges, founder of Bridging Divorce Solutions, to explore how her personal journey through an unexpected and challenging divorce inspired her to create a better, non-adversarial process for others. Brenda shares her story of transitioning from a yoga instructor to a financial advisor, the obstacles she faced, and the lessons she learned along the way.

Join us as Brenda discusses the importance of setting clear goals before engaging in the divorce process, choosing the right method and professionals, and how these steps empower individuals to control their divorce instead of being controlled by it. Brenda also offers valuable insights into the unique financial challenges women face during divorce and how her firm helps them navigate these complexities with confidence.

Whether you're considering divorce, in the midst of it, or supporting someone through the process, this episode provides essential guidance on making informed, goal-oriented decisions to ensure a better life beyond divorce. Tune in to discover how to transform fear into hope and questions into confidence with Brenda Bridges' expert advice.

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02 July 2024

Why DIY Divorce and Online Services Can't Compare to Restorative Divorce

Discover why Restorative Divorce outshines DIY and online services. Learn how our personalized, legally compliant, and emotionally supportive approach ensures long-term family well-being. Explore more at birtlaw.com.

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